Continuation of THIS meme with additional questions taken off Tumblr:

How often do they fight?
What do they do when they’re away from each other?
Nicknames for each other?
Who is more likely to pay for dinner?
Who steals the covers at night?
What would they get each other for gifts?
Who swears more?
What would they do if the other one was hurt?
Who started the relationship?
Toughest decision they've made?

Couple Still Playing:
Connie Murphy & Greg Lestrade


How often do they fight?
Initially they didn't fight very much but this was an issue. Lestrade avoided fighting due to his last serious relationship and Murphy constantly expected fights due to her last serious relationship. But they eventually had a conversation about it and met somewhere in the middle. They'll fight to not bottle things up (Lestrade) but they'll make up and things will be okay (Murphy).

What do they do when they’re away from each other?
Murphy and Lestrade had a long distance relationship for awhile. During this period they did a lot of Skyping, texting, and actually began to use their vacation days to visit one another. Because of Anna's school schedule, Lestrade tended to visit Chicago a bit more. This led to Sherlock complaining constantly about Lestrade being unavailable and that it wasn't good for the state of crime rates in London but more importantly, Sherlock's boredom rates. John talked to him about it and it's better now.

Nicknames for each other?
No nicknames, really. Murphy and Lestrade aren't fans of them.

Who is more likely to pay for dinner?
Unless one is taking the other out for something specific (birthday, promotion), they'll split it.

Who steals the covers at night?
That would be Lestrade. It's led to them getting a lot more covers.

Who swears more?
That would be Murphy. And she's sometimes very creative which Lestrade finds scandalous but also really impressive.

What would they do if the other one was hurt?
Murphy would first make sure that Lestrade would be fine and then find whoever did it and put them away. Lestrade would do the same and also stay with Anna until things were okay. And then he'd go find the person.

Who started the relationship?
Technically Lestrade started the relationship as he made the first move.

Toughest decision they've made?
Basically who would end up having to relocate. It didn't help that everyone in their lives got in on the conversation. Sherlock made an argument for Lestrade staying in London which boiled down to "I don't want to have to break in a new DI." Harry made an argument for Murphy staying in Chicago which boiled down to "I can't use technology and I'll never see you." Lestrade and Murphy talked about it, fought about it, and talked about it a lot more. Eventually, Murphy decided to move to London. Lestrade made it clear it had nothing to do with Sherlock's argument.